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Savoring the Weekend

9/7/2016

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I moved from Boston to Rochester only four months ago. One of the best things about Rochester is how much less people use their smartphones compared to Bostonians. I have my thoughts as to why I think Boston is staring at their phones a lot more, but my conjecture is not the point of this blog post.  

This past Labor Day weekend I went to the woods of Denmark, Maine near the White Mountains. Needless to say there wasn't much cell service. I opted to put my cellphone on airplane mode (as did most folks). I only checked it once to see if there were any "emergencies" (there rarely are, let's be honest), and to send a few "I'm alive" texts. The majority of my time was spent outside in the woods hiking, swimming, canoeing, doing yoga, eating 
really really good food with strangers and old friends - cellphone-free. I was being mindful and present this weekend without even trying to be. 

The New York Times wrote an article about the overused buzzword last year entitled, "The Muddled Meaning of 'Mindfulness,'" In it, the article quotes Jon Kabat-Zinn, a Zen Buddhist who summarizes modern day mindfulness as “'The awareness that arises through paying attention on purpose in the present moment, and non-judgmentally.'” This weekend was the first time since I moved back to Rochester that I forgot about the busy/distracting act of missing Boston. Instead, I was being with everything around me. It was because I was in nature sans phone. 


My biggest challenge here in Rochester is my lack of connection to this lovely Flower (Flour) City. I want to get to know people, places, sites, the culture, etc. But I have been trapped in a cycle of desperately trying to stay attached to Boston via social media & texting. Using my smartphone as a security blanket, I am missing relationship opportunities and experiences here in Rochester. 

So, how do we savor the nature-filled/mindfulness (fill in the blank) weekend and stay detached from the phone so we can relate to one another more (in person & in real life)? Below are a few (FREE!) things I try to do when I'm feeling distracted and want to refocus on the now: 
  • Take a long walk/run/bike ride outside with no plan of where to go
  • Meander over to a park near your home and lay in the grass
  • Find the nearest swimming hole,  dip your feet in or go for a swim
  • Eat outside during a meal
  • Put your phone away whenever you're with someone
If you have any other ideas, feel free to share. ​xo
Picture
 Maine. The way life should be.
[Photo from this weekend]
1 Comment
Morgine link
10/18/2016 11:50:44 am

I have no service at home and only take my phone to call home for messages from my business. However, living near Portland, Oregon where I shop and eat, cell phones are like extensions of bodies.

My suggestion is leaving the phone in the car. Check it when you get in the car before driving. That way you can be more Fully Present for your shopping, dining with friends, attending a meeting. Whatever you are doing Be With It....and you can benefit so much more from life and Others can benefit more from your Amazing Presence!

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